I LOVE YOU, MAN
I Love You, Man (2009)
Published: April 16, 2009
Written by Cherish Hamutoff


I Love You, Man is a typical rom-com with a switch: straight boy meets straight boy, boys develop boy
crush, boys break up, bros make up, and everyone lives happily ever after.  Hollywood’s in love with
the bromance.      

Paul Rudd stars as Peter Klaven, the perfect boyfriend: sensitive, attentive, and loving.  What he’s
missing is a brofriend.  When he overhears his fiancée, Zooey (Rashida Jones), and her bounty of
bridesmaids voicing their concern for his lack of a man love life, Peter starts the hunt for a Best
Man.  After a series of failed man dates, Peter sees soft-bellied, hard-tempered, and all around guy’s
guy, Sydney Fife (Jason Segel) across the room.  Their eyes lock, they laugh over a fart joke and a
Panini, and it’s a boy crush at first sight.  They bond at Sydney’s man cave in Venice, CA, where he
has a designated masturbation station and a full drum kit, replete with mics and axes.  As their love
grows, Peter’s relationship suffers with Zooey.  Will Peter have to choose between Zooey and
Sydney, or can bromance coexist with romance?

What could have been a typical teenage boy gross-out film filled with fart jokes and sight gags, was
transformed into a charming film with heart and laughs because of the chemistry of the perfectly cast
actors, the well-written and contemporary subject matter, and the hilarious running cameo with Lou
Ferrigno.  As filled as it was with cringe-inducing moments, it balanced them with true laughs and
tender moments.  Rudd as Peter bumbled himself though a first friendship, giving really awkward
nicknames, leaving mortifyingly embarrassing phone messages and trying to be cool and exit with
dignity – which never seemed to work out.  And because he was so relatable, he had the audience
totally on his side.  Who doesn’t remember bumbling though a conversation with the “cool kid?”  

Segel as Sydney was relatable in a different way: who doesn’t know that guy; the average bum with a
charming chip on his shoulder who inexplicably always gets laid?  By hot girls, nonetheless.  One
would never think to pair this odd couple together, but they each need something from the other,
and somehow, it works.  

The rest of the cast also left the audience in stitches: Barry (Favreau) and Denise (Pressly) are a
married couple who are always on the edge of knocking each other out, but that hate turns to heat
which they plan to dispense in the bedroom.  Peter’s father (Simmons) and brother (Samberg) are
best friends and way cooler than Peter, and although gay, Peter’s brother is the manly one.  Jo Lo
Truglio’s screeching sports-obsessed character walked the razor’s edge of being too much or being
the funniest thing I’ve seen.  Favreau and Pressly walked the edge too, and with great comedy
precision.  The whole movie lived on the edge of a little too gross out, a little too bromantic, a bit
sexist, a whole lot of TMI (masturbation chair, doggie doo, deep feelings between males); but it loved
living on that edge, and for me, it never fell off and that’s where the trill was.  

It’s a laugh out loud comedy with a tender romance – between straight men.  I loved I Love You, Man.


Rated: R
Running time: 105 minutes
Directed by: John Hamburg
Written by: John Hamburg
Starring: Paul Rudd, Jason Segel, Rashida Jones, Andy Samberg, J.K. Simmons, Jane Curtin, Jon
Favreau, Jaime Pressly, Lou Ferrigno